Day 18: Joseph is Guardian of the Church and of Each One of Us

Now when they had departed, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream and said, “Rise, take the child and his mother, and flee to Egypt, and remain there till I tell you; for Herod is about to search for the child, to destroy him.” And he rose and took the child and his mother by night, and departed to Egypt, and remained there until the death of Herod. This was to fulfill what the Lord had spoken by the prophet, “Out of Egypt have I called my son.”

The Church transforms these needs into prayer. Recalling that God wished to entrust the beginnings of our redemption to the faithful care of St. Joseph, she asks God to grant that she may faithfully cooperate in the work of salvation; that she may receive the same faithfulness and purity of heart that inspired Joseph in serving the Incarnate World; and that she may walk before God in the ways of holiness and justice, following Joseph’s example and through his intercession.

One hundred years ago, Pope Leo XIII had already exhorted the Catholic world to pray for the protection of St. Joseph, Patron of the whole Church. The Encyclical [of Pope Leo XIII] Quamquam Pluries appealed to Joseph’s “fatherly love…for the child Jesus” and commended to him, as “the provident guardian of the divine Family,” “the beloved inheritance which Jesus Christ purchased by his blood.” Since that time—as I recalled at the beginning of this Exhortation—the Church has implored the protection of St. Joseph on the basis of “that sacred bond of charity which united him to the Immaculate Virgin Mother of God,” and the Church has commended to Joseph all of her cares, including those dangers which threaten the human family.

Even today we have many reasons to pray in a similar way: “Most beloved father, dispel the evil of falsehood and sin…graciously assist us from heaven in our struggle with the powers of darkness…and just as once you saved the Child Jesus from mortal danger, so now defend God’s holy Church from the snares of her enemies and from all adversity.” Today we still have good reason to commend everyone to St. Joseph.

In the Litany of St. Joseph he is called “Terror of demons.” This title often captures people’s attention and stirs their fascination. St. Joseph protects us from evil. The greatest protection from evil is in humility and charity. St. Joseph brings us to the lowest place and he holds us close to Jesus, the source of all love. Joseph is sometimes depicted carrying a lantern from when he led the Holy Family out of Bethlehem by night. Joseph brings light of purity that dispels the power of darkness, and the light of honesty that eliminates falsehood.

Joseph’s protection and intercession is not a magic talisman but rather requires our cooperation. We must want to be honest, pure, humble, and virtuous. We must want to place the love of God before all else and continually choose Him whenever there is a conflict between Him and the enticements of this world. But how do we develop such desires? As we pray to St. Joseph and deepen our friendship with him, our desire to be like him will continue to grow.

What are the places in your life that still need to be transformed? In what ways do you suffer from the darkness of evil, falsehood and the power of sin? Where do you need the protection of St. Joseph in your life? How is he teaching you to become more like him?

Litany of St. Joseph or
Ancient Prayer of St. Joseph or
Ad te beate Ioseph

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Saint Bede

Our Guiding Star

Unfurl the sails and let God
steer us where He will.

Christ is the Morning Star,
who, when the night of this world is past,
gives to his saints the promise of the light of life,
and opens everlasting day.

Grant us Your light, O Lord,
so that the darkness of our hearts,
may wholly pass away
and we may come at last,
to the Light of Christ.

Saint Bede

Day 17: The Great Love of Joseph’s Heart for Mary and Jesus

Now the birth of Jesus Christ took place in this way. When his mother Mary had been betrothed to Joseph, before they came together she was found to be with child of the Holy Spirit; and her husband Joseph, being a just man and unwilling to put her to shame, resolved to send her away quietly. But as he considered this, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream, saying, “Joseph, son of David, do not fear to take Mary your wife, for that which is conceived in her is of the Holy Spirit; she will bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus, for he will save his people from their sins.” All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had spoken by the prophet: “Behold, a virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and his name shall be called Emmanuel” (which means “God with us”). When Joseph woke from sleep, he did as the angel of the Lord commanded him; he took his wife, but knew her not until she had borne a son; and he called his name Jesus.

In the words of the “annunciation” by night, Joseph not only heard the divine truth concerning his wife’s indescribable vocation; he also heard once again the truth about his own vocation. This “just” man, who, in the spirit of the noblest traditions of the Chosen People, loved the Virgin of Nazareth and was bound to her by a husband’s love, was once again called by God to this love.

“Joseph did as the angel of the Lord commanded him; he took his wife” into his home (Mt 1:24); what was conceived in Mary was “of the Holy Spirit.” From expressions such as these are we not to suppose that his love as a man was also given new birth by the Holy Spirit? Are we not to think that the love of God which has been poured forth into the human heart through the Holy Spirit (cf. Rm 5:5) molds every human love to perfection? This love of God also molds-in a completely unique way-the love of husband and wife, deepening within it everything of human worth and beauty, everything that bespeaks an exclusive gift of self, a covenant between persons, and an authentic communion according to the model of the Blessed Trinity.

“Joseph. . .took his wife; but he knew her not, until she had borne a son” (Mt 1:24-25). These words indicate another kind of closeness in marriage. The deep spiritual closeness arising from marital union and the interpersonal contact between man and woman have their definitive origin in the Spirit, the Giver of Life (cf. Jn 6:63). Joseph, in obedience to the Spirit, found in the Spirit the source of love, the conjugal love which he experienced as a man. And this love proved to be greater than this “just man” could ever have expected within the limits of his human heart.

St. John Paul II invites us into a profoundly sacred space in the marital love between Joseph and Mary. Although a fearful approach would make their virginity a barrier between them, Pope John Paul II has no hesitation in speaking of the greatness of their love. As the Catechism taught in the passages on chastity, the virtuously chaste man or woman is able to experience even greater intimacy, closeness, and tenderness. From this perspective of a man with a fully developed heart, we are invited to imagine the intimate love he shared with both Jesus and Mary. Following God’s law does not limit, but rather intensifies our capacity for love. Indeed, we will find the fullness of God’s law exemplified in the Heart of Jesus which is a burning furnace of love.

How do imagine Joseph demonstrated his love for Mary? How about his love for Jesus? What things did they speak about? What graces did they share? What tender gestures did they exchange? What was it like to enter their house in Nazareth? What can we learn from Joseph about how to love Jesus and Mary more fully?

Litany of St. Joseph or
Ancient Prayer of St. Joseph or
Ad te beate Ioseph

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Mother of the Church

“Lumen gentium” The mission of the Holy Spirit in the church

the Holy Spirit was sent on the day of Pentecost to sanctify the Church unceasingly, and thus enable believers to have access to the Father through Christ in the one Spirit..

By the power of the Gospel he enables the Church to grow young, perpetually renews it, and leads it to complete union with its Bridegroom .. In this way the Church reveals itself as a people whose unity has its source in the unity of Father, Son and Holy Spirit.

Moreover, the Holy Spirit not only sanctifies and guides God’s people by the sacraments and the ministries, and enriches it with virtues, he also distributes special graces among the faithful of every state of life, assigning his gifts to each as he chooses.

By means of these special gifts he equips them and makes them eager for various activities and responsibilities that benefit the Church in its renewal.. These charisms, the simpler and more widespread as well as the most outstanding, should be accepted with a sense of gratitude and consolation, since in a very special way they answer and serve the needs of the Church.

Day 16: St. Joseph’s Most Chaste Heart

This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. Greater love has no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. You are my friends if you do what I command you. No longer do I call you servants, for the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all that I have heard from my Father I have made known to you.

2338 The chaste person maintains the integrity of the powers of life and love placed in him. This integrity ensures the unity of the person; it is opposed to any behavior that would impair it. It tolerates neither a double life nor duplicity in speech.

2339 Chastity includes an apprenticeship in self-mastery which is a training in human freedom. The alternative is clear: either man governs his passions and finds peace, or he lets himself be dominated by them and becomes unhappy. “Man’s dignity therefore requires him to act out of conscious and free choice, as moved and drawn in a personal way from within, and not by blind impulses in himself or by mere external constraint. Man gains such dignity when, ridding himself of all slavery to the passions, he presses forward to his goal by freely choosing what is good and, by his diligence and skill, effectively secures for himself the means suited to this end.”1

2340 Whoever wants to remain faithful to his baptismal promises and resist temptations will want to adopt the means for doing so: self-knowledge, practice of an ascesis adapted to the situations that confront him, obedience to God’s commandments, exercise of the moral virtues, and fidelity to prayer. “Indeed it is through chastity that we are gathered together and led back to the unity from which we were fragmented into multiplicity.”2

2341 The virtue of chastity comes under the cardinal virtue of temperance, which seeks to permeate the passions and appetites of the senses with reason.

2342 Self-mastery is a long and exacting work. One can never consider it acquired once and for all. It presupposes renewed effort at all stages of life. The effort required can be more intense in certain periods, such as when the personality is being formed during childhood and adolescence.

2343 Chastity has laws of growth which progress through stages marked by imperfection and too often by sin. “Man… day by day builds himself up through his many free decisions; and so he knows, loves, and accomplishes moral good by stages of growth.”3

2344 Chastity represents an eminently personal task; it also involves a cultural effort, for there is “an interdependence between personal betterment and the improvement of society.” Chastity presupposes respect for the rights of the person, in particular the right to receive information and an education that respect the moral and spiritual dimensions of human life.

2345 Chastity is a moral virtue. It is also a gift from God, a grace, a fruit of spiritual effort. The Holy Spirit enables one whom the water of Baptism has regenerated to imitate the purity of Christ.

2346 Charity is the form of all the virtues. Under its influence, chastity appears as a school of the gift of the person. Self-mastery is ordered to the gift of self. Chastity leads him who practices it to become a witness to his neighbor of God’s fidelity and loving kindness.

2347 The virtue of chastity blossoms in friendship. It shows the disciple how to follow and imitate him who has chosen us as his friends, who has given himself totally to us and allows us to participate in his divine estate. Chastity is a promise of immortality.

Chastity is expressed notably in friendship with one’s neighbor. Whether it develops between persons of the same or opposite sex, friendship represents a great good for all. It leads to spiritual communion.

At the Last Supper, Jesus taught His disciples what true friendship means: totality of self-gift even to the degree of laying down my life for my friend; totality of trust, even to the point that I do whatever my friend tells me; totality of self-revelation, even to the point that I entrust my whole heart to my friend.

The Program for Priestly Formation 6th edition sets out friendship with Jesus as one of the goals of seminary formation. How do we develop such great heights of friendship? The Catechism teaches us that it goes along with the virtue of chastity, which “blossoms in friendship.” Chastity is the virtue that governs our personal relationships, particularly in the dimensions of intimacy. Intimacy is based on the sharing of our interior lives. We have intimacy when heart speaks to heart, when the inside of me is inside of you and the inside of you is inside of me. Our capacity to take another into our heart is a uniquely human quality, made in the image of God (cf. John 17).

This requires a path of self-knowledge. We have to grow in awareness of what is in our hearts and how we are affected by our relationships as well as by the culture. It also requires self-mastery, in our ability to freely choose to receive or not, to share or not, to trust or not. It requires self-gift, in our ability to discern and then actually to give ourselves to another and open ourselves to the gift of another. All this we can learn from St. Joseph’s Most Chaste Heart.

How well do you know yourself? How free are you interiorly? How far along the path of self-mastery and self-gift have you come? How are your relationships? How developed is the virtue of chastity in your life? How is your friendship with Jesus? How is your friendship with others?

Litany of St. Joseph or
Ancient Prayer of St. Joseph or
Ad te beate Ioseph

  1. Gaudium et Spes x 17. ↩︎
  2. St. Augustine, Confessions 10, 29, 40.s x 17. ↩︎
  3. Familiaris Consortio 23. ↩︎

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Come Holy Spirit and set our lives on fire

Prayer to the Holy Spirit

“To consider life as a vocation encourages interior freedom, stirring within the person a desire for the future, as well as the rejection of a notion of existence that is passive, boring, and banal.”

Holy Spirit, I appear before you as a sinner, but I appear before you in your name. Come with me, stay with me, enter into my heart, teach me what to do and what direction to take. Show me what to choose so that, with your help, I may please you in all things. Be my counselor and the author of my purpose. You, who with God, the Father, and his son, bear the name of glorious.

I thank you, spirit of truth. I thank you, consoler, because you brought me close to the mystery of the pierced hands and feet, the pierced side of God. Because you have again brought us close to the depth and the power of the mystery of the redemption.

Come, Holy Spirit. Come. Enter deep into the hearts of those who belong to you. May each be given the manifestation of you for the common good. So that God may be all in all.

Send upon me, O Father, a new effusion of the spirit so that I may walk in a manner worthy of the Christian vocation, offering to the world the testimony of the Gospels’ truth and inspiring the faithful to unite all believers in the chain of peace.

Pope St John Paul II

Day 15: Humility Protects the Virginal Heart

Now he told a parable to those who were invited, when he marked how they chose the places of honor, saying to them, “When you are invited by any one to a marriage feast, do not sit down in a place of honor, lest a more eminent man than you be invited by him; and he who invited you both will come and say to you, ‘Give place to this man,’ and then you will begin with shame to take the lowest place. But when you are invited, go and sit in the lowest place, so that when your host comes he may say to you, ‘Friend, go up higher’; then you will be honored in the presence of all who sit at table with you. For every one who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted.”

But if St. Joseph was careful to keep his virtues hidden under the shelter of his most holy humility, he took special care to conceal the precious pearl of his virginity; it is for this reason that he consented to be married, so that no one might know it, and that, under the holy veil of marriage, he might live more hidden. By this, virgins and those who wish to live chastely are taught that it is not enough for them to be virgins, if they are not humble, and if they do not enclose their purity in the precious box of humility; for otherwise it will happen to them as to foolish virgins, who, for want of humility and merciful charity, were shut out from the marriage feast of the Bridegroom [Matthew 25:1-12], and thus were forced to go to the marriage of the world, where they do not observe the counsel of the heavenly Spouse, who says that it is necessary to be humble to enter the wedding feast, I mean that it is necessary that one practice humility: for, He says, in going to a marriage feast, or “being invited to a marriage feast, take the lowest place” [Luke 14: 8,10]. By this we see how necessary humility is for the preservation of virginity, since undoubtedly no will be admitted to the heavenly banquet and to the nuptial feast that God prepares for virgins in the celestial dwelling place, unless they be accompanied by this virtue.

Humility protects all the virtues, including chastity. Charity is the form of the virtues, giving them their height, direction and purpose. Humility is the ground of the virtues, providing their safe and stable foundation. Dietrich von Hildebrand, in his great work Transformation in Christ, enumerates several attitudes that mitigate against humility: pride that hates goodness, is blind to value, isolates and divides, turns freedom into license, and refuses all submission as such. With lesser forms of pride, we might reject the sovereignty of God, consider ourselves more valuable because of our virtues, consider our virtues as being due to ourselves instead of God. He also notes the dangers of vanity and haughtiness in which we display our own virtues or hold ourselves above submission to other persons, respectively. The humility of St. Joseph is a great teacher for us and uniting our heart with his can help us, by God’s grace, to grow in all the virtues for the sake of Jesus and Mary.

In what ways is your humility threatened? Which attitudes listed by von Hildebrand resonate with you as potential dangers? What makes it difficult for you to take the lowest place, as instructed by Jesus?

Litany of St. Joseph or
Ancient Prayer of St. Joseph or
Ad te beate Ioseph

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Memorial Day . Remember Pray Honor

Air Force

Those who gave their Lives

Whereas the high courage and the supreme sacrifice of Americans who gave their lives in battle have made it possible for our land to flourish under freedom and justice; and

Whereas the ideals and patriotism of those who answered the call to service stand as an inspiration to every new generation of Americans; and

Whereas the same principles and revolutionary beliefs for which our forbears fought and died are still at issue in the world and the challenge against them can be met only through the same qualities of courage, strength, and unflinching determination shown by our noble dead; and

Whereas Memorial Day each year provides a fitting occasion upon which our people may not only commemorate the Nation’s heroic dead but also unite in prayer for the preservation of liberty and peace free from the threat of war;

Now, Therefore, I, John F. Kennedy, President of the United States, do hereby urge the people of the United States to observe Tuesday, May 30, 1961, Memorial Day, by invoking the blessing of God on those who have died in defense of our country, and by praying for a new world of law where peace and justice shall prevail and a life of opportunity shall be assured for all; and I designate the hour beginning in each locality at eleven o’clock in the morning of that day as the time to unite in such prayer.

John F Kennedy
35th president of the United States

Day 14: Strong, Courageous, Constant, Persevering and Humble Heart of St. Joseph

In those days a decree went out from Caesar Augustus that all the world should be enrolled. This was the first enrollment, when Quirinius was governor of Syria. And all went to be enrolled, each to his own city. And Joseph also went up from Galilee, from the city of Nazareth, to Judea, to the city of David, which is called Bethlehem, because he was of the house and lineage of David, to be enrolled with Mary his betrothed, who was with child. And while they were there, the time came for her to be delivered. And she gave birth to her first-born son and wrapped him in swaddling cloths, and laid him in a manger, because there was no place for them in the inn.

It is certainly with very good reason that St. Joseph is said to resemble the palm tree, for he was always strong, courageous, constant, and persevering. There is a great difference between constancy and perseverance, and between strength and courage. We call those constant who stand firm and prepared to suffer the assaults of their enemies, without weakening or losing courage during the combat; but perseverance chiefly concerns a certain interior weariness that comes upon us amidst the lengthy duration of our sufferings, which is as powerful an enemy as can be encountered. Now perseverance makes us despise this enemy in such a way that we remain victorious by a continual evenness and submission to the will of God. Strength is what makes us powerfully resist the attacks of our enemies; but courage is a virtue that makes one not only hold oneself in readiness to fight or to resist when the occasion presents itself, but also to attack the enemy at the moment when it is least expected. Now our glorious St. Joseph was endowed with all these virtues, and he practiced them marvelously well.

You understand, then, how exalted was the dignity of St. Joseph, and how full he was of all sorts of virtues; nevertheless, he was more abject and humble than one can say or imagine. One example alone suffices to make it well understood. He goes into his own country and to his own town of Bethlehem, and no one was turned away from all the inns but himself, at least as far as we know; thus he was forced to retire and to take his chaste Spouse into a stable, among the oxen and asses [Luke 2:4-7]. Oh, to what extremity was his abjection and his humility reduced! His humility was the reason, thus St. Bernard explains it, that he wanted to leave Our Lady when he saw that she was with child; for St. Bernard says that he held this conversation with himself: “And what is this? I know that she is a virgin, for we have made a vow together to keep virginity and purity, which she would not on any account break; yet I see that she is with child and that she is a mother: how can it be that maternity is found in virginity and that virginity does not prevent maternity? O God!, he said to himself, must she not be that glorious ‘Virgin,’ of whom the prophets declare that ‘shall conceive’ and be the Mother of the Messiah [Isaiah 7:14]? Oh, if it be so, God forbid that I should remain with her, I who am so unworthy. It is better that I leave her secretly on account of my unworthiness, and that I do not remain any longer in her company.” An admirable feeling of humility, making St. Peter cry out in the boat in which he was with Our Lord, when Peter saw His almighty power manifested in the great draught of fishes on His only commanding that they cast their nets into the sea: “O Lord,” he said, completely overwhelmed by a feeling of humility like St. Joseph, “depart from me, for I am a sinful man” [Luke 5:8], and hence I am not worthy to be with You. I know well, he meant to say, that if I throw myself into the sea, I shall perish; but, You, who are all powerful, will walk upon the waters without danger; therefore, I entreat You to depart from me, and not that I should depart from You.

St. Francis de Sales was a great lover and admirer of St. Joseph. He held St. Joseph in very high esteem and presented him unhesitatingly as a great example for our imitation. Here he lauds St. Joseph’s constancy, perseverance, courage and strength. He distinguishes those four qualities, but together they provide a picture of stability and trustworthiness in the face of any kind of adversity. St. Joseph can teach us that kind of stability as well in the midst of the trials we are subjected to in this world. As the prevailing philosophies and political ideologies drift farther away from Christianity, our faith is threatened. We know there were more martyrs in the twentieth century than all previous centuries combined. It takes constancy, perseverance, strength and courage to be a follower of Christ.

Even more importantly, though, it takes humility. Joseph found himself in a lofty place, to be the man closest to Jesus at His Incarnation and for the majority of His earthly life. Aware that this honor was not one he could choose for himself, St. Francis de Sales (following St. Bernard) explains Joseph’s decision to release Mary from him, to give her leave to depart from him. But it is the same humility that accepts the calling when it is presented to him clearly by the angel in the dream: “You shall name him Jesus,” telling him in this way that he was to be the earthly father who would foster Jesus’s earthly life. How is your heart? Constant? Persevering? Strong? Courageous? Humble? Do you refuse to grasp at honors and yet are ready to accept them if it is God’s will? Are you ready to answer God’s call for you?

Litany of St. Joseph or
Ancient Prayer of St. Joseph or
Ad te beate Ioseph

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