{"id":213,"date":"2018-03-16T04:00:39","date_gmt":"2018-03-16T08:00:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fatherboniface.org\/wordpresshome\/?p=213"},"modified":"2018-03-13T20:04:34","modified_gmt":"2018-03-14T00:04:34","slug":"emptying-ourselves-day-10-true-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fatherboniface.org\/wordpresshome\/spiritual-practices\/marian-consecration\/emptying-ourselves-day-10-true-love\/","title":{"rendered":"Emptying ourselves Day 10 – True love"},"content":{"rendered":"

Day 10 – True love<\/strong><\/p>\n

A Reading from the First Letter of Saint John:<\/p>\n

Beloved, let us love one another; for love is of God, and he who loves is born of God and knows God. He who does not love does not know God; for God is love. In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only-begotten Son into the world, so that we might live through him. In this is love, not that we loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the expiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No man has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us. (1 John 4:7-12)<\/em><\/p>\n

From Pope Benedict XVI\u2019s encyclical letter Deus Caritas Est<\/em> (God is Love):<\/p>\n

Nowadays Christianity of the past is often criticized as having been opposed to the body; and it is quite true that tendencies of this sort have always existed. Yet the contemporary way of exalting the body is deceptive. Eros<\/em>, reduced to pure \u201csex\u201d, has become a commodity, a mere \u201cthing\u201d to be bought and sold, or rather, man himself becomes a commodity. This is hardly man’s great \u201cyes\u201d to the body. On the contrary, he now considers his body and his sexuality as the purely material part of himself, to be used and exploited at will. Nor does he see it as an arena for the exercise of his freedom, but as a mere object that he attempts, as he pleases, to make both enjoyable and harmless. Here we are actually dealing with a debasement of the human body: no longer is it integrated into our overall existential freedom; no longer is it a vital expression of our whole being, but it is more or less relegated to the purely biological sphere. The apparent exaltation of the body can quickly turn into a hatred of bodiliness. Christian faith, on the other hand, has always considered man a unity in duality, a reality in which spirit and matter compenetrate, and in which each is brought to a new nobility. True, eros<\/em> tends to rise \u201cin ecstasy\u201d towards the Divine, to lead us beyond ourselves; yet for this very reason it calls for a path of ascent, renunciation, purification and healing.<\/p>\n

Concretely, what does this path of ascent and purification entail? How might love be experienced so that it can fully realize its human and divine promise? Here we can find a first, important indication in the Song of Songs, an Old Testament book well known to the mystics. According to the interpretation generally held today, the poems contained in this book were originally love-songs, perhaps intended for a Jewish wedding feast and meant to exalt conjugal love. In this context it is highly instructive to note that in the course of the book two different Hebrew words are used to indicate \u201clove\u201d. First there is the word dodim<\/em>, a plural form suggesting a love that is still insecure, indeterminate and searching. This comes to be replaced by the word ahab\u00e0<\/em>, which the Greek version of the Old Testament translates with the similar-sounding agape<\/em>, which, as we have seen, becomes the typical expression for the biblical notion of love. By contrast with an indeterminate, \u201csearching\u201d love, this word expresses the experience of a love which involves a real discovery of the other, moving beyond the selfish character that prevailed earlier. Love now becomes concern and care for the other. No longer is it self-seeking, a sinking in the intoxication of happiness; instead it seeks the good of the beloved: it becomes renunciation and it is ready, and even willing, for sacrifice.<\/p>\n

Reflection:<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>We see the intensity of God\u2019s eros<\/em> when He overshadows Mary by the power of the Holy Spirit and becomes Incarnate in her womb. We also see that His first encounter with our human nature is in our littleness and helplessness\u2014He first becomes Incarnate in the womb of Mary. It is not the seductive power of our sexuality that first attracts Him nor does He encounter us first in the ecstatic experiences of sexual intimacy. He meets us first in weakness, in littleness, in the womb of Mary. His eros<\/em> drives Him to empty Himself in agape<\/em> and unite Himself with our most fragile human experiences.<\/p>\n

Does this correspond to my idea of love? Where did I get my idea about what love is? Do I buy into the lie that sex is simply a bodily experience without a meaning or spiritual implication? Do I see the goodness of eros <\/em>and also the way that it must be purified by agape<\/em>? Let us reflect on any distortions in our view of love and then make an act of love:<\/p>\n

O my God, I love you above all things, with my whole heart and soul, because you are all good and worthy of all my love. I love my neighbor as myself for the love of you. I forgive all who have injured me and I ask pardon of all whom I have injured.<\/p>\n

Prayers:<\/a><\/p>\n

Veni Sancte Spiritus<\/p>\n

Ave Maris Stella or Sub Tuum Praesidium<\/p>\n

Litany of Penance or Radiating Christ<\/p>\n

Prayer of Entrustment to the Womb of Mary<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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